Monday, August 29, 2011

Thanking David

There once was a kind man named David, he had a kind dog named Sophia, in the kind city of San Francisco, where I lived with my dog Rocko (rotten lab, pun intended. Rottweiler Labrador mix) and my husband Steve before we made the moved to Tucson AZ.

We got Rocko from the SPCA as a puppy and David adopted Sophia at the same time, we didn't know each other.

I would take Rocko to the dog park all the time to burn off all his puppy energy and to hang with other dogs. One day, when Rocko was about two years old, I saw him bothering some people and I hollered at him to stop. He didn't stop, which was unusual, for he was always well behaved. Just then, this guy yells to the dog to stop and the dog did. But he was yelling out the name Sophia. And my dog Rocko came running up behind me.
There are two dogs here that looked exactly the same! My Rocko and his Sophia. I approach the guy about this and we start exchanging notes. He got her from the SPCA and she was from a litter of thirteen that were born there. This was my story to. We have siblings dogs. Brother and sister. We decide to exchange our info and it turns out that the guy only lived two blocks from us. And in a city like SF, that was amazing. I was not at the neighborhood dog park, I was at the one on the beach, a couple of miles away.

From then on, we called each other to arrange meetings so they could play. At least once a week we'd meet at the beach. One day as we met there, he says that he has to move and he can't take Sophia with him. My first instinct, I panic, what are you going to do with her I ask? He says, that he was hoping that I'd take her. Instant relief! I have been wanting another dog, but my husband keeps saying no. Now he has no choice, we are getting Sophia! We make the exchange and she comes and lives with us. This was odd for Rocko, he likes Sophia but isn't it time she goes home? No buddy, get used to her, you're not an only dog now. They do settle in and became the best of friends.

Rocko already had a brother living with us. We had a cat named Boo, and Rocko idolized Boo. Boo was Rocko's big brother even though Rocko grew four times as big as Boo, little brother still wanted to climb under the office desk each day, just as Boo did. Sophia on the other hand did not care for Boo at all! Now it was Rocko's job to protect Boo. She learned quickly not to mess with Boo.

From here is the letter I wrote to David, to notifiy him of Sophia's passing. Yesterday I came across his email address, so thought it time to inform him. He loved her as much as I did.

David,

My name is Darrell, I'm sure you remember me, I am the guy you gave Sophia to when you moved from San Francisco. I just came across your name and email in my desk after so long of it being buried.

I just wanted to Thank You again for letting Sophia join our family and her natural brother Rocko. They have been the loves of my life! They truly were the best dogs ever! We called her Queen Sophia, she carried herself with the best grace and dignity even to the end.
Yes, I'm sorry to have to tell you that she is no longer with us, both her and Rocko have passed back in 2009. Had I found your email sooner I would have informed you then.

Sophia suffered a stroke in 2008 which affected her equilibrium so she had balance problems but was still all there in her head. I simply would loop a belt around her waist and help her along. I was her wheel chair for the last year. Since she could not walk on her own I'd take her and Rocko to the dog park daily to visit all the other dogs. I'd lay out a blanket on the ground and she held court with all the dogs coming over to greet her and pay respect! Everybody called her the Queen. She was amazing!

Rocko to had issues walking in his old age, but could still manage on his own, he did not like to be helped except getting in and out of the truck where he would give an unapproving grrrrr. At the dog park he would stand where all the people gathered and act as if he was involved in the conversations people were having, following each person talking with his head. Like he was a person to.
Beside the many talents he had, he could do one thing that amazed people, he could say his own name. People would ask him, "What's your name," and he'd respond, "Raroo". Over and over again they would ask him and he'd respond Raroo every time. It was wonderful. And everybody loved him greatly!

The two were truly loved by all that met them!

In 2003 we moved to Arizona, two black dogs in Arizona need relief from the heat, so we got them a nice ranch to roam around on and a swimming pool to cool off in. They really enjoyed all the wild animals to chase and the pool to jump in before their later health issues. Sophia swam right till the end, where I'd put a doggy life preserver on her so she could still swim after her beloved frisbee.
Rocko would play life guard and watch for anybody that swam to the deep end, where he would go after them to urge them back to the shallow end, or safe side.

They lived fantastic lives and we loved them very much! The end came when Rocko ended up breaking his front left leg trying to stand one day. Since he did not like to receive help from anybody, it came time to have them no longer suffer from these problems. The hardest thing I have ever come to, I'm losing my two best friends and I must lose my best friends, only for their sake! Sophia was going down hill with her stroke issues and Rocko could not move himself around anymore. We called our vet and she said that she would come out the next morning to put them out of their troubles.
That night we gave them filet mignon wrapped in bacon and treated them like the Marvelous friends they were! They knew just how much they gave us and we tried to show them the very same love back! For they were the most amazing dogs ever! I can't stop saying that enough! I have you to thank for letting Sophia share her life with us.

They came into this world together, and went out the same way, together. It was the worst day of my life! I am still missing them so much!

During their last year we got another rescue dog named Kody to maybe help Rocko and Sophia feel some youth again. He looked up to both of them to. Now that he has inherited their world he has become little Rocko, following his lead in all things Rocko and Sophia loved so much. After their passing we went and got another rescue dog named Aleah. I only wish Aleah could have known both of them to, like Kody got the chance to. In Rocko and Sophia's honor we now have two name sake dogs, Kody, named after Rocko and Aleah, named after Sophia. We also planted two trees in honor of my best friends.

I may not see them each day as I had for thirteen years, but I do feel their love and thank them daily for sharing their lives with me.

The two best dogs ever! Still in their youth.


Her Majesty Queen Sophia


And Sophia doing what she loved so much, jumping in the pool after her frisbee. Rocko, playing lifeguard sitting on the steps, chomping on his frisbee.

I do hope this makes it to you! And again, sorry for the dreadful news.

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Back Home Now

We drove home on Thursday and it is kinda nice being home except for the heat and it is still humid. Driving in we saw rain downpours and the Monsoon Clouds looming around Tucson. The very thing we escaped by going to San Diego. Now I have to deal with the things that got neglected while we were away.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

City Fest and the Lighting of the Hillcrest Sign

We happened to be here for City Fest on Sunday August 14th. The locals call it an alternate LGBT Pride. They close off the the streets, set up a stage and have a street fair. On this City Fest was the lighting of the Hillcrest Sign that spans across University Avenue. The sign has been there for many years but they took it down to refurbish it in lower energy LED lights. At 8:00 in the evening they uncovered it in celebration of the new lighting. Sorry, the picture is not very good but look at all the people!



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Monday, August 22, 2011

Within Balboa Park

San Diego hosted a Panama Exhibit just like San Francisco did back around 1915. Unlike San Francisco that demolished most of the buildings, San Diego preserved theirs. And they stand today here in Balboa Park.
This is one of them and is now the San Diego Museum of Art. We went here to see one of the exhibits, the Stickley Collection. Photos were not allowed of the collection, unfortunately. I am a big fan of Mission Furniture and the Arts and Crafts movement of the early 20th century.




The drive is called El Prado and is lined with the beautiful buildings.















This is called the Old Globe Theater. We came here one night to see the performance of Amadeus, the story of one man's determination to upset Amadeus Motzart's career, brought on by jealousy. There are three theaters in this square, one in the round, one a traditional theater and the one we attended, an outdoor theater (next picture). The performance was fantastic and being outdoors here in San Diego at night was wonderful!


Here is the entrance to the outdoor theater. Before the performance, we were treated to appetizers and an open bar, brought to us by a Gay Collective that Steve, my honey, found out about, and this was the reason we chose to come on this particular evening. We met and chatted with some really nice people.


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Some detail on one of the buildings. They can be quite ornate!



Thursday, August 18, 2011

Marston House, Street Tour

Sarai Johnson and Paul Johnson, of Johnson & Johnson Architectural Inc. We're our docents on our street tour of the Marsden House area tour, I say of the area because earlier in the week we did the actual Marsden House tour. A sort of Prairie School early design of Frank Lloyd Wright. The style of the house changed to the Prairie School style after mid construction. Today was the neighborhood tour in which George Marsden seem to have living around him, many of his is business aquatints, friends and his one son. He founded the historic Balboa Park and he was a prominent businessman in the early days of San Diego.



This is the sons house. Right next door.





One neighbor across the street.





The back side of the Marsden House.


And the front of the Marsden House. Right at the northern end of Balboa Park.


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Monday, August 15, 2011

Our San Diego Vaca

All I want to say is, this vacation is killing me! Having too much fun! Wish you were here!


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Saturday, August 13, 2011

Wine Tasting at Bernardo Winery

Today we went wine tasting in Rancho Bernardo. A village north of San Diego. This place is a little park, full of vineyards, artists, cafe's and of course, my favorite, wine! We enjoyed the best bruschetta and a cheese plater. Roasted garlic, sundries tomatoes, olives and an assortment of cheeses, all to be spread on French bread and crackers. We started with the cab and moved on to other tastings.


For a refresher we sipped on a fruity sangria. Cheers!


Steve's loving this!


My iPad does not capture just how beautiful it all is around this winery.


And the local artist are right there creating art. Here we have the glass blowers doing their thing.





For some reason I only took pictures of them doing their art, not any pictures of the finished glass, which is for sale on shelves right behind me.


My honey enjoying himself and wishing you all his blessings with a final glass of rose champagne for desert.


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Friday, August 12, 2011

Coronado Island, Dog Beach

Today we went to Coronado Island and the dog beach there.



Kody loves his ball and the handy throw stick makes it so you don't have to use your hands to pick up his grimy slobber ball.



It's not easy to take a picture of ourselves holding the iPad.


I kinda like this one with my buddies behind me.


Aleah was in heaven exploring the beach smells.


As Kody waits for the throw, Aleah rolls around in the sand, she's loving this!



Point Loma is that dot of land on the right, we're at the opening of San Diego Bay at the top end of Coronado Island.
I'm bringing the kids back to this beach on Wednesday, when our local dog park is closed for maintenance. It' really nice!
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Friday, August 05, 2011

Point Loma Sea Food

This is the best seafood here in SD! I love it! You order inside at the counter, they call out your order when it is done and go outside to find a spot at the harbors edge. They do have tables both inside and out, but we like to sit out. And with dogs, it's the only place. Funny, I always order the Crab Cakes, with a glass of dry white wine, I'm in heaven!


From here you can see the downtown skyline, at a distance.


Dogs get to watch us enjoy our meal, I do share, but not much. Their not much interested in the view, with Crab Cakes so close.


Lots of boats moored here.





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Thursday, August 04, 2011

San Diego Zoo, kinda

Here we are at the World Famous San Diego Zoo. Well, outside the zoo anyways. Dogs were not allowed inside except for service dogs. Somehow the zoo gate keeper was not convinced that both Kody and Aleah were my service dogs. Aleah was not able to translate the gate keepers remarks to me well enough, but I got the drift. hehe Kody led us away with our tails between our legs.


We could buy commemorative t-shirts if we liked. But they didn't have doggy sizes. Kody was a fan of the tie-dye. Aleah liked the shirts with animals on them. Mild disappointment.





It was pretty crowded, Kody and Aleah were big hits with the kids at the gate. The parents could have saved big, if they just paid me half of what the zoo charged.


We did get to enjoy the tropical foliage. Shade was nice!
We walked home and the house keeper was just finishing up. She did a good job and it is nice to have a clean home again. Time to start messing it up.


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A Day at Dog Park.

Discovered dog park in Balboa Park yesterday.


Full of friendly people and dogs.


Kody and Aleah seemed to love the shade.





And of course the grass.








I hear this bridge is called suicide bridge, people used to jump off it. It is pretty high, but now it has fencing so you can't, thank good ness!


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